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Tear of Heaven In Shah Alam
An sms yesterday afternoon from my youngest sis sent me spinning momentarily into deep shock and sorrow.
My nephew's 2nd bundle of joy had suddenly passed away.
She was only 2 months and 3 days old.
Arwah Adelia Bt Mohd Nizzam was a beautiful, bubbly, shiny-eyed chubby baby with rosy apple cheeks.
Excuse me for not being able to post her photo here.
I have not asked Nizzam and Fariza's permission..
maybe another day.
Sadly, I did not get to meet her too.
And now she has gone back to heaven.
Her mom had sent her to one of the nurseries in Section 10 in Shah Alam.
Her kakak has been in the same nursery for those in the slightly older section.
Naturally, she was trustingly handed over to the infant side of the same proprietorship.
Familiarity with the nursery brought no safety concerns of any sort to the young,working mum.
When news broke out that the beautiful baby was not breathing and was already rushed to the hospital, one cannot imagine how heartbroken her parents must have been.
She was said to have had some fluids in her lungs.
Fariza could not bear with any post-mortem on her angelic-looking child.
It would take 3-4 days anyway for the whole process to be completed.
All of us just wanted to scream and howl tearfully.
We rushed to sms and call each other to spread the dreadful news.
It was one of those extremely sorrowful moments for the Ghazali Bunch, the Aminuddin Bunch, the Mohd Nizzam Bunch and of course the Muar Bunch.
Though we seldom meet up, our true depth of love for each other is always tested when any sad or happy family event takes place.
Like everyone, we love each other right to the core.
Our love has been always been in the heart, thoughts and soul..
I believe such love exists for so many of you out there too.
We are programmed in that manner because everybody is so preoccupied with their lives and commitments.
And of course, the love then goes without saying.
Distance and self-absence do not wipe out that immensely, overpowering emotional gift that Allah SWT has bestowed on us all..
WE LOVE EACH OTHER..until eternity.
According to the nursery, Adelia was bathed, fed with some milk and tucked in.
But then they noticed she was not breathing.
She was rushed to the clinic first and then to the hospital at 11am.
The doctor said she was gone when they brought her in.
He had put the time of death as one hour before, at the nursery.
All the hazy info about what happened, has not allowed me to really pen down the exact details of the tragic tale.
Everybody seems too distraught to tell me a step by step explaination.
From the bits and pieces of what I could gather and confirm, I can only deduce that perhaps the nursery was negligent in their duties towards a tiny, helpless soul.
A police report has been made.
Adelia had just come back from Muar on Sunday the 13th, where her mom had spent her confinement period under the care and love of her of her doting maternal grandparents and relatives.
While they were there, their young ayah would dash back every weekend to be reunited with them.
Now that Adelia is gone, all those excitingly happy, racing trips to see his newborn and beloved family will remain a painful memory.
As it is, the young couple cannot help blaming themselves for what has happened.
Nizzam is already saying he has failed as a good father..
my eyes went teary-eyed upon hearing that untrue confession.
Believe me, like his dad, he is one of the most loving and protective fathers around.
Arwah Adelia was safely laid to rest at 8.45pm last night in Muar.
Alhamdullillah syukur.
We know Allah SWT had loaned her to us all for only a brief spell.
But, the magical basket of love and joy she brought was so overwhelming and memorable.
However, He quickly took her back to heaven for He loves her more..Ameen.
p.s. Jam and Fariza..she's waiting for you guys kat syurga.
Please sent my endless hugs and kisses to Alesha..
love you all so very much.
For the Platinum bunch, I cannot describe the intense grief I am sharing with you all.
But as always..Allah SWT knows best.
To Intan and BangMin..please bersabar..
Allah SWT menguji kita.
InsyaAllah hikmahnya besar.
Latest sms from my youngest sis Rahah..I want to share this with you all too.
Salam. Arwah baby was driven in jenazah van to Muar lepas asar semalam. Kesian sgt2 Nizzam.He broke down many times.Tak pernah I tgk he cry so much.He blames himself.I takut dia breakdown lagi teruk.Sayang sgt2 dia kat arwah, tak habis2 cium,cry..
A real heartwrenching sight.P/s: Wanblur ambik daripada sini.. http://mamasita-mamamia.blogspot.com/2011/03/tears-of-heaven-in-shah-alam.html
Then, the entri was updated,
This is a follow-up to my previous blog article - "Tears of Heaven in Shah Alam"
Nizzam has tagged me an FB photo which I have decided to post it in my blog with his permission.Thanks Zzam.
p.s - Please click on the image for better reading.Thank you.
Arwah Adelia in happier times with her kakak Alesha.
We Love You Adelia....InsyaAllah we will find out what actually happened to you sayang..
In addition...smses from Nizzam a short while ago.
I now give him a space on my blog to say a few words.
"The Taska An Najah Edu after seeing my post on their facebook wall, has removed my comment but weirdly not my 'friendship link' with them. Seems once my daughter dah pergi, they want me to say nothing about how I feel and the facts that were true, perhaps in fear of having their 'business customers' to know that this tragedy happened. Fariza punya komen pun kena remove. Something very disrespectful to me, my wife and especially to Arwah AdeLia. Are they trying to sweep this tragedy 'under the carpet'?"
"TQVM. I'm trying all I can, to get anyone willing to help 'squeeze the truth out'. If it comes to getting the minister Datuk Sharizat punya attention to this mishap, I will do what I must."
"I'm victimised too. So I accept any help that Aunty is willing to provide. My Arwah daughter is depending on us to fight for the truth, nothing else. I will be eagerly waiting for Auntie's updates. We are not out to aniaya anyone, as enough people have suffered and are still suffering already. We just want to pin-point whether there was any element of negligent that caused the lives of too many infants already. Not all taskas are bad, but kejadian sebegini bagaikan 'kerana nila setitik, rosak susu sebelanga'."
"Ada I reply pending on Auntie's blog with my comment adressed to three people who commented on your blog regarding this tragedy. (TEARS OF HEAVEN IN SHAH ALAM)
The owner of the Taska, didn't even bother to call/sms me directly, since Arwah's death. Only selepas I posted a factual comment on their facebook wall midnight tadi, baru nak call.
Itupun tuduh I nak fitnah. Now, they even resorted to removing the comment on their facebook wall altogether. Memang perangai diorang ni insensitive and macam kanak2 whereas their duty is to jaga kanak2. "
~ Zzam, auntie ada tambah sikit kat latest posting. Please take a look ok.
"Ok, as soon as I'm back home di Muar. Am with Ma, Ayah, Fara, and Salman, ziarah kubur Arwah AdeLia@Gersik, Muar. Thank you for all that you are helping me with. I can't pull myself together alone
Lets support them for their child's justice.
Wanblur check2 blog tue, ada beberapa lagi entri terbaru, nak tahu? sila klik link yang dibawah tq
- nizzams-pursuit-for-justice-continues
- salam-dato-seri-shahrizat-abdul-jalil
- my-ferocious-support-for-arwah-adelias
- tagged-fb-photos-from-nizzam
- http://mamasita-mamamia.blogspot.com/2011/04kasih-sayang-kakak-untuk-adiknya
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Adelia Muhammad Nizzam disahkan meninggal dunia oleh pakar perubatan, dipercayai kira-kira sejam sebelum dia dikejarkan ke klinik itu oleh pengasuh Taska.
Bapa bayi, Muhammad Nizzam Aminuddin, 34, melahirkan kesal dengan tindakan pengasuh di Taska tersebut yang lewat menghantar anaknya untuk mendapatkan rawatan, selain gagal memaklumkan segera kejadian itu kepadanya.
"Ketika kejadian, saya dan isteri sedang mencari pakaian untuk arwah di sebuah pusat membeli-belah di Subang Jaya. Apa yang saya kesalkan, pihak Taska lewat memaklumkan kejadian itu iaitu kira-kira pukul 11.30 pagi, selepas bayi kami disahkan meninggal dunia oleh pakar perubatan di klinik tersebut.
"Pihak klinik memaklumkan Adelia mungkin dapat diselamatkan sekiranya pihak Taska bertindak cepat dengan menghantarnya ke klinik sejurus melihat perubahan berlaku," katanya ketika dihubungi Mingguan Malaysia di sini hari ini.
Adelia merupakan anak kedua Muhammad Nizzam dan isterinya, Fariza Tukir, 32. Keluarga itu yang menetap di Seksyen 13, Shah Alam baru dua hari menghantar bayi itu ke Taska tersebut.
Bapa mangsa membuat laporan di Balai Polis Seksyen 9, Shah Alam pada hari kejadian, namun pihak Taska juga membuat laporan polis berhubung kejadian itu hari ini.
Ketua Polis Daerah Shah Alam, Asisten Komisioner Zahedi Ayob semasa dihubungi mengklasifikasikan kes itu sebagai mati mengejut.
P/s : AlFatihah kepada arwah adik Adelia, dan semoga ibubapa mangsa mendapat kesabaran dan keadilan dalam menegakkan keadilan
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